50 Clear Soulmate Signs: Have You Found Your Match?

Have you met someone with whom you feel a powerful physical and spiritual attraction? 

Could they be your soulmate?

Meeting your soul other is one of the most joyous feelings.

But, it can also be a bit confusing if you’ve never experienced such a connection before.

So, in this article, I share 50 telltale soulmate sighs to help you find out if the person you are dating now is your soulmate. 

If your relationship experiences half or more of the signs, you have most likely found your soulmate!

These are the major soulmate signs from the universe you should look out for. 

Let’s get started!

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50 Clear Soulmate Signs: Have You Found Your Match?

Throughout your life, you will have many soulmate connections

By recognizing a romantic soulmate, you can begin to consciously learn the lessons they came to teach you in this lifetime.

How do you know someone is your soulmate?

As a general rule, a romantic soulmate is someone with whom you have a deep spiritual, emotional, and physical connection. You originate from the same soul family and may have a strong sense that you’ve known each other before in a past life. 

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Now, let’s take a look at the primary soulmate signs that you have found your soul other.

1. They came into your life at the right moment

Maybe you were inconsolable after a terrible loss. Or, you just left a toxic relationship.

Then, they came into your life and gave it meaning. This is a sign you have crossed paths with your soulmate. 

2. Your differences complete you 

As much as you share a lot in common, you also have your peculiarities.

Instead of being a source of conflict and division, as is the case with a karmic connection, your differences draw you to each other. 

You accept and deeply respect the other person for who they are.

I’ve seen many people confuse a karmic connection for a soul connection. 

I strongly recommend that you familiarize yourself with the difference between soulmate, twin flame, and karmic connections.

3. You had an instant connection

One of the early soulmate signs is when you ‘click’ from the first time you meet. 

Your souls recognize each other from a past lifetime. This is known as a soul connection.

4. You were constantly bumping into each other

It is not common to bump into the same person several times.

Even more telling is if you strike a great conversation or feel drawn to one another when you meet at these random places.

These are clear soulmate synchronicity signs that you are meant to be.

Your souls have been looking for each other.

5. You feel like you know each other

If you have a sense of deja vu when around them, this person is likely your soulmate.

You know them from a past life. So, you recognize each other as belonging to the same soul.

6. You like and dislike the same things

Preferring a lot of the same things is a sign of a soul connection.

This could be minor things like food or major ones like hobbies or sexual preferences.

As such, there is a lot of agreeableness between soulmates like you.

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7. You have a similar worldview on major issues

Soulmates tend to understand and interpret the world in a similar way.

Their views on society, politics, religion and parenting complement each other.

Unsurprisingly, the most successful marriages are between soulmates.

8. You can be your authentic self

When you are with your soulmate, you don’t feel the need to pretend to be someone you are not.

You can reveal your true self, warts and all, without shame or fear of negative judgment.

I have found that reciting positive affirmations like these here can be a powerful way to nurture your authentic self, especially when entering a new relationship. 

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9. Your best version shines through when you are around them

Few people can manage to bring out the best in us. Even our parents are not always successful at this.

But, with your soulmate, you always feel positive vibes when you are around each other.

10. You feel a deep sense of joy when you are with them

Despite hard times and amidst the usual struggles of life, you still manage to feel some sense of hope.

Knowing that you have each other fills you with deep joy, not just fleeting happiness.

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11. Your life feels meaningful

They ignite a sense of purpose in your life.

This is one of the major signs of a true soulmate.

You will feel alive, inspired, and driven than you have ever been.

12. You feel emotionally at peace

Your soulmate doesn’t feel like hard work. They fill your life with ease at every turn.

Between the two of you, there are no negative feelings or any kind of toxicity.

13. You rarely fight and solve disagreements amicably

Because of your soul connection, there is less of an impulse to disagree.

On those rare occasions when you disagree, you resolve your issues quietly, amicably, and in a healthy way.

girl hiking holding hand with husband 14. You trust each other

You have a deep knowing that they got your back no matter what.

They are reliable, consistent, and truthful. You have never trusted anyone as you trust them.

15. You feel an extraordinary sense of peace around them

What happens when you meet your soulmate is that their presence feels like home. 

They are your haven, and you theirs. You feel an untold calmness in your heart and mind.

16. You know what the other is feeling even before they say it

You have such a deep connection you can complete each other’s sentences.

Many times, you can sense their thoughts and feel their feelings, and act accordingly.

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17. There are a lot of coincidences between the two of you

Maybe you share a birthday, or your maternal grandparents are namesakes.

Perhaps you were both dumped by your ex-partners on the same day or separately visited a specific restaurant at the same time.

These weird soulmate signs or synchronicities are signs of a strong soul connection.

18. You empathize with each other

In times of distress, you can feel their pain, stress, or discomfort as your own.

Because you are part of the same soul, your pain is their pain, and theirs is yours.

19. You support each other without hesitation

They are your greatest cheerleader. You both genuinely care about each other’s progress.

You positively contribute toward each other’s dreams and show up for the other without fail.

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20. You understand each other’s need for alone time/space

The need for time out is honored and revered. 

There are no hard feelings, manipulation, or toxicity when one of you needs space.

Being apart for some time doesn’t erode your connection; it contributes to strengthening it.

21. You’ve seen their worst, but you still love them

Whether they were emotionally scarred, financially broken, or in a physical mess, you were still drawn to their soul.

You recognized the beautiful person behind the madness.

22. You prioritize their happiness

You don’t feel like you are sacrificing or giving up anything to keep them happy and comfortable. 

When they are happy, you are happy.

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23. You are protective of each other

Your soulmate will readily stand up for you no matter what. They never want to see you hurt. 

Their protectiveness is not driven by jealousy but by love and care for your wellbeing.

24. You feel valued

Someone with whom you have a soul connection will easily respect and value you for who you are. 

You don’t need to prove yourself to earn their respect.

25. They respect your boundaries

Few people are willing to respect others’ boundaries. 

When you meet someone who ‘gets it’ and honors your boundaries, take this as an important soulmate meeting sign

soulmates26. You’re comfortable being vulnerable

You cannot let down your guard with just anyone. 

Your true soulmate is the one person with whom you can be vulnerable and they with you, without fear or shame.

27. They inspire a sense of confidence

Soulmates come into our lives to bring out the best in us. This is among the early signs of soulmate arrival.

They don’t criticize or bring us down. They believe in us and are always assuring us that we can do it.

28. You see the same angel numbers

Angel numbers are subtle but powerful signs from the universe. They often indicate you are on the right path.

If you’ve seen these number patterns since they came into your life, this person is likely your soulmate.

Check out this amazing resource to learn more about the hidden message behind repeating numbers. 

29. You’ve survived hard times together

The truest mark of a soul connection is when you stick by each other through thick and thin.

Hard times strengthen your bond; they are your pillar of hope, and their presence makes life less bleak.

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30. They’re not trying to change you

They fully accept you for who you are. 

They can inspire you to adopt better habits, but they don’t force you to change or else.

31. They go with the flow

Your soulmate will honor where you are at in your life currently. 

Whether you are at your highest or lowest point, they accept your situation for what it is.

32. You have healthy communication

You can share your feelings and concerns with them and feel heard. 

They validate your emotions and give you a safe space to express yourself.

33. You both put in the work

A soulmate relationship is not all rainbows and butterflies. 

If you find someone who chooses to work to make the relationship better every day, they are likely your soulmate.

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34. You forgive each other easily

You are gracious with each other. 

You might hurt each other accidentally, but you are quick to learn the lesson, forgive, and move on together.

35. You don’t feel the need for jealousy

You feel secure in yourself and them. 

They don’t put you in situations where you have to fight for their attention, love, or care. 

You know you are their priority.

36. There is low drama between you

Soulmates can come into your life to teach you painful lessons. 

But, this doesn’t mean your life should be ruled by constant toxic drama. 

What happens when you meet your soulmate is that you can learn the lessons, heal, and continue loving each other.

37. They are consistent

Their predictability makes them a haven.  You can rely on them to walk their talk and be who they are at all times.

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38. You have the same dreams

You are telepathically connected and vibrating at the same frequency. 

Sharing the same dream is among the signs from the universe that someone is thinking of you, especially if you are in a long-distance relationship with your soulmate.

By the way, if you’d like to have more control over your dreams and thoughts, opening your third eye can help. You can learn more here

39. You are not codependent

You inspire, support, and are always there for each other. But, you are each free to make your own choices without any guilt or negative consequences.

There is an understanding that you are of the same soul, but you are also separate individuals.

40. You are comfortable with silence

You can have periods of silence even when you are together. This will not be mistaken for being a problem. 

True soulmates have good communication, but they also honor the sacredness of silence.

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41. You respect each other’s freedom

Some relationships are meant to last a lifetime, and others aren’t.

You have found your soulmate if you don’t feel the need to possess each other.

You are free to be anywhere, and you both know when to let each other go.

42. They know you better than you know yourself

They always show up at just the right time and seem to have the perfect solutions to your problems.

They can detect when you are about to make a mistake and divert you away. 

They save the day with what seems like synchronistic magic.

43. You have a strong physical attraction

One of the biggest soulmate signs and symptoms is when you have a powerful spiritual and emotional connection. 

But, you also feel strongly drawn to them physically.

Your souls recognize each other, and your attraction lasts past the honeymoon phase.

This kind of attraction happens between twin flames too. 

44. You laugh together

Simple as it might seem, finding someone with whom to laugh is not always easy. 

But, when you have a strong soulmate connection with a person, you tend to share a similar sense of humor.

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45. You enjoy the mundane moments

Soulmate connections are not always fireworks and magic.

When you enjoy the humdrum, day-to-day activities together like picking up groceries or cleaning your apartment together, you have probably found your soulmate.

One of the ways my partner and I have managed to enjoy a peaceful day-to-day co-existence is by clearing negative energy in the house. 

Check out this video where I explain how you, too, can do it. 

46. They change your life profoundly

Maybe they will show you a different kind of love. And, in turn, change your perspective about love.

Maybe they will share a piece of advice that opens up a floodgate of opportunities that transform your life.

When you meet your soulmate, you will notice massive changes in your inner and outer life.

47. They make you aware of your shadows

Shadows are the hidden and wounded parts of you that you’d rather hide.

A soulmate will mirror back these parts. Their words and actions may trigger you, but all this brings healing.

48. You have the same backstory

Soulmates meet to complete each other’s spiritual evolution. 

It is common for souls from the same family who share a similar backstory to decide to meet in the physical form.

Getting a soul reading can help you find out your purpose on earth. It will also reveal any hidden blocks on your path. 

49. You feel energized around them

A profound energetic exchange occurs when soulmates find each other.

But, instead of draining each other, your energies merge and uplift you physically and spiritually.

50. Your connection is free of materialistic desires

You are not fixated on each other’s possessions or lack of them.

Your connection goes beyond bank accounts, cars, houses, or other capitalistic assets.

You are only interested in their heart and soul.

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How do you find your soulmate?

A spiritual tool like the law of attraction combined with healthy habits can help you find your soulmate. You must first believe your soulmate exists and that you deserve this kind of love. Doing the inner work of healing from past wounds and eliminating limiting beliefs can bring you closer to your soul other. 

What happens when you meet your soulmate for the first time?

When you first meet your soulmate, you’ll feel an instant physical attraction and spiritual connection. Your intuition will recognize them, and you’ll have a powerful sense of deja vu. Your initial communication will flow, quickly moving from small talk and into a deep conversation like you are long-lost friends. 

How can you know your soulmate’s name?

Numerology is one tool you can use to find out your soulmate’s name. Based on the numbers on your chart and their chart, you can find out their personality, essential qualities, and whether you have a soul connection. You can also try taking an online soulmate quiz


There is no doubt that finding your soulmate is a magical feeling.

They challenge you to be a better person, and they make life worth living.

You might enter into many relationships. But a relationship with your romantic soulmate is literally a match made in heaven.

You both agreed to reincarnate in the physical form to help each other complete an energetic cycle at the spiritual level.

You are here to heal and uplift each other into higher dimensions of being. 

What I have learned based on my experience with soul connections is to trust your instinct. 

One of the biggest soulmate signs is ‘just knowing,’ deep in your gut, that you’ve found your soul match. 

Did any of the soulmate signs resonate? Do you think you have met your soulmate? Let me know in the comments!


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